Music in an intergenerational church is tricky. People have vastly differing opinions on what is beautiful, and what music moves them. TOO BAD say Wesley and Luther. Music is meant to draw us towards God, yes, but the truth of Scripture and the power of the Holy Spirit in worship are where true transformation happens.
“Have an eye to God in every word you sing. Aim at pleasing him more than yourself, or any other creature.” -Wesley
“A person who does not regard music as a marvelous creation of God, must be a clodhopper indeed and does not deserve to be called a human being; he should be permitted to hear nothing but the braying of donkeys and the grunting of hogs.” –Luther